Relationship 101:
Overlook the Negative and See the Positive
You have to admit that your significant other is not perfect. There are little annoyances that you will notice. When you get married, these little things might intensify – if that is your focus.
To make sure that you will not magnify the negative, always look for the positive side.
How to do this? Write down the positive characters that your partner has. What he or she does ‘right’. You can even let them read that at the end of the week.
Do you like their cooking? How about cleaning the house, putting away clean clothes? Making you coffee in the morning? Washing the dishes? Doing the laundry?
Hugging you for no reason? Making sure you have everything you need before you go to work? Making plans to travel with you on the weekend?
There are so many things you can list down that will make you realize that the good will always outweigh the not so good.
When you do this, you will not only have a better experience but a deeper relationship. This is especially true when your significant other knows that you appreciate him or her.
In the end you will understand that their imperfection will make you love them more. Through their imperfection, you realize that their goodness stands out more.
Keep Your Love Alive
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